For me, these would be the major secrets, as it doesn't start with this good awareness. It always begins with feeling like you have performed something amiss, whether you have masturbated, taken anything, mistreated some body, or there is anything in your mind that you've evaluated as so hideous that you never also need to face it, you just want to forget about this and drive it out of awareness.
Underneath those memories and feelings, is the belief that we are separated. Here is the “secret” we hide. It is actually an difficult opinion, but we believe it is correct; We've evaluated it as dreadful and have awakening mind it out of awareness. All unconscious shame comes from this opinion in separation. And as you truly give your self over to the wonder, you feel all those concealed beliefs and secrets are being washed out and you finally experience that hidden opinion in divorce!
Underneath those memories and feelings, is the belief that we are separated. Here is the “secret” we hide. It is actually an difficult opinion, but we believe it is correct; We've evaluated it as dreadful and have awakening mind it out of awareness. All unconscious shame comes from this opinion in separation. And as you truly give your self over to the wonder, you feel all those concealed beliefs and secrets are being washed out and you finally experience that hidden opinion in divorce!